Thursday, October 31, 2013

Yet another blogger talking about halloween

I can remember trick or treating with my older brother when I was probably 5 (this was the early 80's). I went as Raggedy Ann and he went as Raggedy Andy. (Stop laughing!!) :) That was the last year my parents took us trick or treating. After that, they decided that it was not a holiday that they wanted us to participate in. There were some years we had a fall party at church or with church friends, or even a fall party at home with just our family on halloween. I don't remember being really disappointed about not going trick or treating. We got candy plenty of other times of the year, and my parents gave us a wonderfully fun childhood. As I got older, I knew about the origins of halloween, and in some ways, I was relieved not to participate in it. I honestly don't feel like I got jipped out of a fun childhood because I stopped dressing up and getting candy on halloween.

Halloween has pretty much always felt evil to me. Because I have trusted the Lord Jesus as my Savior, I have the Holy Spirit dwelling in me, and I know the verse that says "Greater is He that is in you, than he that is in the world." I'm not afraid of Halloween, but I just want nothing to do with it. One thing that greatly offends me is that many aspects of halloween make light of spiritual wickedness. Ghosts and witches are made to look harmless and cutesy. Immodest or vulgar costumes are portrayed as fun. This could be a way that we often become desensitized toward sinful things. (Obviously, we live in a fallen world, and we have to guard against this every day, not just halloween.) I've heard many people say that their family doesn't do all the spooky, scary stuff. I understand that, because that is what we did, too. But the problem is that I can't control what other people dress up as or use for decorations in their yard. I don't want my kids being exposed to a lot of the ghastly stuff out there. Look, I know that the world can be a scary place, but my kids are still very young, and they just don't need to be fearful because of seeing some images they can't get out of their heads.

Here are some things I often hear in support of observing halloween, along with my responses:

1. "Do you hate candy and fun?"  - No, I don't hate candy....or fun....or puppies.....or even sunshine. I give my children candy (in moderation, of course!:) all year long. And we plan many fun activities for our children to participate in throughout the year. Trust me, they get to experience a wonderful childhood...way more than I had, in some ways! And please do not assume that I am a stingy, miserly, pickled-sour Christian who just doesn't want to buy candy for kids I don't know. That is not the case at all.

2. "But halloween is could be handing out tracts with the candy, you know! - Let me ask you honestly, do you give out gospel tracts to your neighbors and community the other 364 days out of the year? Are you fully doing your part to share the gospel any time you can in your community? Halloween is not the only time you can hand out tracts, right? I'm not really against Christians handing out candy and tracts to the kids that come to your door. If you feel led to do that, I think it's great. If you are going to do that, I think Christians should buy the best candy, and give it out with a smile, a tract, and an invitation to their church.

3. "Why are you so uptight? Don't you know halloween is just a time for kids to have fun?" - It's not just something that USED to be associated with the occult. It STILL is. The whole time this holiday has existed, it has been associated with that. Think about the costumes. Are costumes getting better or worse?  MOST of the costumes I see are either grotesque or verrrry scantily-clad female costumes. Have you noticed that all halloween decorations are scary, spooky, or ghostly? Gravestones, skeletons, ghosts, witches, zombies, dead people, monsters, hacked off limbs, fake blood....I could keep going. Even jack-o-lanterns usually have a contorted face carved into the pumpkin, or a ghost, or a howling wolf, or something of that nature. I have researched some of the key elements of halloween and even something seemingly harmless like a carved pumpkin with a light inside was originally linked to the occult. I simply don't want any part of that. The devil appears as an angel of light, and one of his primary goals is to deceive people into thinking that sinful things are harmless. I'm not pointing my finger at you and accusing you of being deceived, but I'm saying that all of us have to be on guard against the devil's fiery darts of deception.

4. "You are going to alienate yourself from the world by refusing to participate. Then how are you ever going to reach the world with the gospel?" - I think we as Christians very often forget that we are SUPPOSED to be separate from the world. The world is confused when they see someone call themselves a Christian, but then live like the world. The world is going to make fun of us, ridicule us, not understand us. That is a given. I'm not suggesting we need to be as weird as possible. But we are supposed to be different. We are supposed to stand out. It's not going to be popular, but if done with an attitude of humility, it is the right thing to do.

5. "Who are you to judge? Aren't you being legalistic? Haven't you ever heard of something called Christian liberty?"  - Okay, judging. Sigh. Everything these days is, don't judge me! But what is judging? I got this definition from "To form an opinion or estimation of after careful consideration." We judge situations every single day. We judge whether we believe something is right or wrong. We all come to our individual beliefs based on whether we judge something to be right or wrong. We form an opinion after careful consideration. Our culture is so PC these days, people are afraid to stand up for their opinions because someone might be offended. I'm certainly not suggesting that we be rude or arrogant in sharing our opinions. But we have got to stop thinking that someone is attacking us when they simply have a different opinion. That goes for both sides.

Okay, now legalism. Sadly, when Christians are not telling others to stop judging them, they are labeling everything as being legalistic. It gets old really fast. The true meaning behind legalism is thinking that a person can gain salvation by adhering to a list of things to do or not do. I don't know of ANYONE that is truely legalistic about celebrating or not celebrating halloween. My faith and trust is completely in Jesus Christ and His finished work on the cross to pay for my sins. So no, I'm not legalistic about halloween. Now if by legalistic, you actually mean "like a pharisee," then my answer is still no. Just because I have a belief that differs from you does not mean that I am acting like a pharisee. Just because I do not celebrate halloween does not mean I think you are not a Christian if you do. Just because I do not celebrate halloween does not mean I feel like I should separate from all Christians who do. I can share with you my viewpoint, and that is what I am attempting to do here. No more, no less.

And finally, let's talk about Christian liberty. Wouldn't you agree that this issue can be boiled down to this: surrendering our will to God, and being willing to obey Him. Each of us should be surrendering our will to the Lord about EVERY issue and decision in our life. We should be seeking His will, and asking Him for wisdom to know how to handle these types of decisions. And then we should be ready to obey what He asks of us. I believe if every Christian - if I - would live like this every day, the world would see what true Christianity really means. Christians on both sides have got to learn how to be able to discuss this issue without blasting away everyone that doesn't agree with them. Making a Christian that celebrates halloween feel like they are participating in devil worship doesn't help one bit. Neither does calling Christians who do not participate "weak, judgmental, and legalistic." (Let me just be clear here, I have NEVER thought that Christians who DO celebrate halloween are trying to worship the devil or dabble in the occult. I honestly believe that the Christians I know who celebrate halloween are doing so just for fun for their kids!)

So you might be thinking, okay, so where do you get that it's wrong from the Bible? Well, I'm going to take a different approach than you might be used to. Most of the time you hear about the verse to abstain from the appearance of evil. Or the verse that says God has not given us the spirit of fear. Or even maybe the verses in the Old Testament about how under the Mosaic law, God commanded that witches be put to death. Those are all good verses, and we know that every verse is profitable for us. But I want to draw attention to 2 Timothy 2:4 - "No man that warreth entangleth himself in the affairs of this life: that he may please him who hath chosen him to be a soldier." As Christians, we are called to not entangle ourselves in things of this world that take our focus away from our relationship with God. This is one of the verses that I base MY decision to not participate on. FOR ME, participating in halloween would entangle me. No, I don't think dressing up and getting candy would be a gateway to the occult for me. (Although, I have heard stories of those that came out of the occult, got saved, and then wanted nothing to do with halloween. So I think we should be sensitive that there are those that DO really struggle with that side of halloween.) That's not what I mean. But for me, it is something I need to lay aside and not participate in. There are plenty of other things that I have also decided to not entangle myself with. And you know what? God is still showing me things that are in my life each day that I need to set aside so that I will not be entangled. It could be a TV show. It could be how I spend my time. It could be a financial decision. Aren't you so glad the Holy Spirit is a patient teacher? Boy, I am!

In closing, I'm going about my day today praising God that He is the One in control today, just as He is every day!

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